Today, it is my great pleasure to introduce someone who actually needs no introduction at all … but I’m giving her one, anyway. 😁Please help me welcome Author and Blogger Extraordinaire, Sally Cronin. Most of you are very familiar with Sally and her fabulous Smorgasbord blog, but I’m guessing you may not be quite as familiar with the romantic story she’s sharing here today. I know you’re gonna love it, so let’s get to it! Sally, my friend, the floor is yours! 😀
So delighted to be back as a guest on my always ROCKIN’ friend’s blog.
A fantastic place to be showcased!
Thanks so much Marcia
Life Changing Moments -The Rocky Road to True Romance
Have you ever wondered why the classic fairy stories that involve a beautiful farmer’s daughter, scullery maid or even a princess, who are swept off their feet by a handsome and rich stranger on a white horse; end with the words ‘And they lived happily ever after’.
Because most were written by men at a time when a woman was a chattel who cooked, cleaned and bore children. The men however went about their business as usual; of course living happily ever after.
That may sound a bit cynical, but I can remember as a child being fed the propaganda. Most commonly via bedtime stories and the ‘Happy Ever After’ films that we were allowed to watch in our teen years. Disney had the whole thing down to a fine art.
By the time I was sixteen, I was convinced that at some point, a rich and handsome stranger was going to gallop into my life and sweep me off into a fairy tale future in a palace with a new generation of princes and princesses, and a life of love and contentment.
By the time I was 19 years old I had kissed a few frogs, and thought that Prince Charming had ridden in a few times, but discovered that in reality they just as quickly rode off into the sunset. Still that is all part of growing up, but because of the indoctrination of childhood, I mistook one particular prince for the real thing.
Oh the joy in the royal family that the princess had been chosen by a prince of such standing from the neighbouring county. A large and lavish wedding was orchestrated by the two queens with the kings simply opening the doors to their treasure houses. The invitation lists in both palaces grew by the hour as dignitaries were invited from far and wide. Many of whom the princess and prince had never met! The reception was a masterpiece of just the right location and the food suitably divine. A vaulted arch of the prince’s entourage lined the drive from the grand cathedral; carriages awaited to take the jubilant bridal party to the festivities.
A few glasses of champagne, elegant speeches and a thrown bouquet that was caught by the next lucky bride, and the prince swept the princess off on his charger into the sunset to the awaiting bridal chamber.
They call it a day to remember, and certainly as I thought about the celebrations in the weeks, months and years that followed, I knew it would be etched on my mind forever. Such an auspicious beginning, and at first it seemed that the dream would continue. However, pretty quickly, what I had believed to be the epitome of true romance had vanished. As tragedy, a controlling environment and betrayal came to light, I found myself trapped by the web that had been spun around me; I felt it would be impossible to break free without angering so many.
But one morning I woke up to find the spell had lost its power, and despite the threat of banishment to a far off land where my shame would not be witnessed by family and friends; I packed up a small bundle of clothes and hit the road. I spent the next three years concealing my whereabouts and keeping well away from anyone who knew me. I ended up in the depths of the Welsh mountains where I worked hard to make my own way, and drifted in and out of a few half-hearted relationships. I was not going to be caught up in the fairy tale again. I was very happy to be alone and to spend my life making my own decisions and being loved by cats.
Then, would you believe it… a prince arrived in disguise. Quiet and bespectacled and riding an ancient nag that had seen better days. There were no grand or extravagant gestures, just a gentle wearing down of my defences. But there was magic involved, of that I am certain. I felt myself being drawn in despite the walls I had built around me. A different kind of spell was being woven that enchanted me, and after only one dinner date, I found myself saying yes to spending a lifetime together with this softly spoken handsome suitor..
The Queen and King back at the castle where I was born were aghast on hearing that I was betrothed again. And to a foreign prince from afar with as yet unknown credentials, who had the audacity to propose on our first date; the Queen announced that she was about to faint.
My prince was not about to let the grass grow under his steed however and he approached the King and asked for his daughter’s hand. With the memory of the extravagance of the previous match, the king offered him £5 and a step ladder in the hopes there would be an elopement.
Which there was, and within six weeks, very quietly and without undue ceremony, we were married. This time just both sets of Kings and Queens and one lady in waiting attended! Drenching rain blessed the union in a small registry office in Wales.
After a festive lunch we set off on the prince’s ancient steed to a rather dark castle in the mountains where the bridal suite, decked in red flock wallpaper, vibrated to the noise emanating from the public bar beneath.
Then it was off to the damp and musty rooms that we managed to find whilst we worked and built up enough savings to buy our first modest home. This was followed by 42 years of travelling the world, living in wonderful countries and working together, with the promise we hope of many more years to come. Despite what had gone before; compelling me to seek sanctuary in that isolated spot in the mountains, it was clearly meant to be, and without doubt led to a life changing moment.
The End
(A Happily Ever After Ending if Ever I Read One, Sally!)
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Author Sally Cronin
After a career in customer facing roles in the hospitality, retail, advertising and telecommunications industry, I wrote and published my first book in 1999 called Size Matters, about my weight loss journey, losing 150lbs in 18 months. This was followed by 13 further fiction and non-fiction books, including a number of short story collections.
My aim was to create a watering hole on my blog to provide a wide number of topics to chat about…..This year in September 2020, Smorgasbord in its current format, celebrated its 7th anniversary.
As important as my own promotion is, I believe it’s important to support others within our community. I offer a number of FREE promotional opportunities on my blog, linked to my social media
Having lived a nomadic existence most of my life, I am now settled on the coast of Wexford in Southern Ireland with my husband of 40 years, enjoying the odd sunny day and the rain that puts the Emerald in the Isles.
You can find Sally’s book, and Sally, herself HERE:
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I’ve never read anything by Sally. This was entertaining but I’m a bit confused. Is she a member of the Royal family? 🙂 Thanks Marcia.
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HI, Kay. Sorry for the delay in your comment appearing, but you’re here now and can comment on any posts on my blog. As for Sally’s relationship to the Royal Family, I’ll let her explain about that. (Should be fun!) Thanks for stopping by, and so sorry I didn’t see the notice that your comment was awaiting approval. Go forth, fully approved, and have at it! 😀 ❤
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Marcia, thanks for finding my comment. Sally’s story was so special that I wanted to say how much I enjoyed reading it. The photos are a perfect touch to her words. I’ll stop by again.🙂
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Yay! I look forward to your visits! 😀 ❤
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Hi Kay.. I am definitely not a member of the royal family… I was using the classic fairy tale search for love and kissing frogs to make my own dismal first attempt more entertaining than it actually was lol… Glad you did find entertaining and the photos were real… thankfully I found my prince 7 years later… always been my lucky number. x
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Nothing better than a real-life happy ending. I’m glad for Sally and David and for finding true love. Marriage is not about the wedding day but all the highs and lows that will come after that. It’s a lot easier to get through that when one is with the right person.
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Thanks very much Pete and I so agree with you and finding the right person is absolutely key… hugsx
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Glad you enjoyed Sally’s fairy tale, Pete, and I agree with your assessment of what makes marriage easier. Thankfully, we live and LEARN (most of us) and often end up making better choices as a result. Sally’s story is a perfect example of that.
Thanks for stopping by and taking a moment to say hello! 😀
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Thank you so much Marcia for inviting me over to share my rocky road to love and romance. A lot of lessons along the way and fate played its hand in getting me to the right place in the end… Keep rockin’ ♥♥
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It was absolutely my pleasure to have you here, Sally, and I love your fairy tale story which truly did have a happy ending, eventually. We live, we learn, and sometimes we (finally) get it right! I love the pictures you shared, too, and congratulate you on not settling for less than you deserved. Three cheers for your final happily ever after moment! 🤗❤️🤗
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Thanks so much again Marcia for being the champion you are for your fellow writers ♥♥
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Marcia, you were right. I absolutely LOVED this one.
What a wonderful story, Sally, and beautifully told. I couldn’t agree more that Disney is tantamount to propaganda, as is so much of what we’re told we should aspire to.
I’m delighted you found your prince and a happy ending!
Thank you so much for sharing. I really enjoyed reading.
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Thanks very much Jackie so pleased you enjoyed. These days as well as Disney we have ‘influences’ selling the coolade! ♥
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So glad you loved Sally’s story, Jackie. So did I!! It’s great to read about someone who refused to settle for less than she deserved, and look how beautifully it all played out because of her choice to escape her prison and make her own way in the world.
Thanks so much for stopping by today, and keep on living your dream, Jackie! Happy travels!
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A very brave decision to defy expectations. I so admire Sally!
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It is great to see Sally and her true love story featured here, Marcia. It is a different kind of fairy tale, but all the better for being true. I agree with you. She does not need an introduction, but yours is excellent. ♥
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Thanks very much Olga and always a pleasure to be over at Marcia’s house where she rolls out the red carpet. ♥
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So glad you enjoyed Sally’s post, Olga, including the introduction. 😀 And yep … being a true story makes this fairy tale all the more beautiful. Food for thought, too, for all of us. Sometimes being on your own is better than being trapped in a bad relationship, that’s for sure. Bravo to Sally!
Thanks so much for stopping by today! 😀 ❤
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Nice to see Sally here and read about her love story. Kudos for leaving a bad situation, and the reward was finding someone who treats you right.
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You nailed it, Sharon, and what a wonderful reward Sally found, too. It does the heart good to read about REAL LIFE fairy tales that end up happily, and all because the heroine was brave enough to head out on her own.
Thanks so much for stopping by today! 😀 ❤
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Thanks very much Sharon and certainly the right move thank goodness.. hugsx
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Nice to know you found your prince without even looking, Sally.
Thanks for hosting, Marcia.
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Glad you enjoyed Sally’s real life fairy tale, Staci. Sometimes you have to get out of a bad situation and then just let things happen as they are meant to, though I’m sure it wasn’t easy. I’m just happy that Sally was brave enough to save herself from a life of misery, and thankfully, she was rewarded for her courage.
Thanks for stopping by today, and here’s to a great rest of the week ahead! 😀 ❤
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I think that sometimes fate plays a part Staci…funnily enough our paths had crossed a couple of times before without us knowing it. Considering David came from Ireland I came from Portsmouth it was quite spooky.. He even went for an interview in my father’s place of work shortly before I got married the first time! xxx
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That’s amazing. And clearly fated.
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Now that’s a wonderful ending. Nice to see Sally out and about.
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I agree, Craig. What a great ending to what might have continued as a very sad story. And weren’t we lucky to have Sally visit us today, given the astoundingly busy schedule she maintains on her own blog? I’m tickled pink she’s here, and happy you stopped by to check out her post, too!
Have a great rest of the week! 😀
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A wonderful post, ladies!
Sally, I love the creative way you’ve told this as a modern fairytale … one much closer to the truth! I’m so happy you found your HEA.
Thanks for sharing, Marcia. Hugs to you both 🤗💕🙂
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I agree, Harmony. Sally’s creative way of telling this real life fairy tale was wonderfully fun to read, wasn’t it? I enjoyed every word, and I’m glad you did, as well. It was a pleasure to have her visit today, and I’m so glad you enjoyed the post!
Thanks so much for stopping by, and I hope you are having a good week, so far! 😀 ❤
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Thanks very much Harmony and glad you enjoyed. I have found after 50 years that the story has become easier to tell.. ♥♥
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I’m sure it has. 💖💖💖
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What a wonderful, real-life fairy tale, Sally. May you and David have many more happy years together!
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It really was a wonderful (and fun) story, wasn’t it, Vera. (Is it okay if I forget and call you Priscilla? Old brain, here!) I’m so glad you enjoyed the post, and thanks for stopping by to let us know. Here’s to a great week ahead! 😀 ❤
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Sure, call me whatever you like. “Vera” comes up when I’m logged into WP. “Priscilla” comes up when I’m not.
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Thanks! I’m so used to calling you Priscilla, it’s probably going to happen whether I’m thinking about it or not. 😁
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Thank you very much Vera and looking forward to more adventures in years to come.. enjoy your week x
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I can relate, Sally. So glad you found THE ONE. May you live many more happy years together. ❤
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So glad you enjoyed Sally’s post today, Sue, and I’m looking forward to your visit here tomorrow, too. 😀
Thanks for stopping by and taking a moment to comment. It’s always great to see you! 😀 ❤
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Thanks very much Sue and I know from working in my field that many women and some men have similar stories to tell, and most have gone on to find love and better lives. hugsxx
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This modern-day fairytale is enchanting. I’m so glad Sally found her HEA with a soft-spoken and attentive prince. And HE’s lucky to have found such a caring and wonderful princess.
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Thanks very much Amy, and I was very lucky that he was happy to take on someone with baggage and be patient. We still laugh together today and that means such a great deal. ♥
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I was never keen on movies depicting fairy tales that started by killing off the mother. But, Sally, your fairy tale I like! Thanks, Marcia, for sharing Sally’s blog. I was not familiar with her work.
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Glad you enjoyed the post, Nancy, and happy that you are now more familiar with Sally’s work than you previously were. Yay!
Thanks so much for stopping by and taking a moment to let us know both of those things, and here’s to a great rest of the day and week. 😀 ❤
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Thanks very much Nancy I appreciate that very much. Enjoy your week.
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What a beautiful happy-ever-after story, Sally! I so relate. Big hugs to you and Marcia. ❤️🤗❤️
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Glad you enjoyed Sally’s post, Gwen, and I agree. It was a beautiful happily ever after story, for sure. Thanks for stopping by today and for the hugs. Sending them right back your way! 😀 ❤
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Thanks very much Gwen and sending hugs back to you ♥
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Awww, I love Sally’s HEA story! It warms the heart. Thank you, Marcia, for having her as a guest today!
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So glad you enjoyed it, Jan, and I had a feeling it would strike pretty much everyone as a beautiful HEA story. So glad you stopped by to check it out and to let us know how much you liked it! Thanks, and here’s to a great afternoon and rest of the week! 😀 ❤
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Thanks very much Jan and delighted you enjoyed ♥♥
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I love your love story, Sally! You are both blessed to have found each other and to have recognized your connection from the start. True love wins after all! 😉 Thanks for sharing her story with us, Marcia!
Yvette M Calleiro 🙂
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Thank you Yvette and he didn’t take long to work his magic… and still does. Enjoy the rest of the week. ♥♥
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So true, Yvette, on all those points, especially the “true love wins after all.” It’s a great feel-good story, isn’t it? Really glad you enjoyed the post, and thanks so much for stopping by. Have a great afternoon and rest of the week ahead! 😀 ❤
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What a positively enchanting story, and I so enjoyed the addition of the photos! Sally, I love the way you told the tale as a modern fairytale. Very creative and also heartwarming with a wonderful HEA.
Thank you for sharing, and thanks for hosting, Marcia. Hugs to you both! 🤗💕
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So glad you enjoyed it, Mae. I thought it was a brilliant post and was very happy to share it on TWS. And you can never go wrong with a good HEA, right? 😊
Thanks so much for stopping by and letting us know you loved the post. Here’s to a great afternoon and a wonderful rest of the week! Hugs back atcha! 🤗❤️🤗
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Thanks very much Mae and sometimes it takes a couple of attempts to get the HEA but it is worth it… have a lovely week.. hugsxx
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What a great post and although it took some bad turns found its way to a happy ending.
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Thanks very much Denise and those bad turns also created an appreciation of how it should be when you love someone… ♥
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It sure did, and I’m so happy you enjoyed it, Denise. It was great fun having Sally join us today! Thanks for stopping by, too. 😀 ❤
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I have heard Sally’s story before but I love how she told it this time! Perfect. Many of us have been through something similar, survived and eventually found the right one to spend our HEA with. I agree, Sally is a phenomenal storyteller, blogger and supporter of others!! Thanks for featuring her here and bringing a smile to our faces.
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So glad you enjoyed Sally’s very special fairy tale, Darlene, and I agree with every word you said. Sally’s amazing, all right, and I was so happy to share this post on TWS!
Thanks so much for stopping by and taking the time to say hello. Hope you have a wonderful rest of the week! 😀 ❤
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And aren’t those little flower girls wearing Jane Austen bonnets adorable!!
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Absolutely!
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two very small nieces aged two…♥
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thanks for all your lovely comments too Marcia.. I feel very special spending the day here.. ♥
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You ARE very special, Sally, and it’s a treat to have you spending the day here! 😀 ❤
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Thanks so much Darlene and delighted you enjoyed the retelling. I have met so many men and women who have started again in one way or another and were the stronger for it. And had a great appreciation for love and what it should mean.. thanks for your lovely comment ♥
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What a wonderful story, Sally. Thank you for sharing!
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Glad you enjoyed Sally’s story, Debra. It was a great pleasure to have her visit here today, and I thank you for stopping by. Have a wonderful rest of the week! 😀 ❤
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Thanks very much Debra and enjoy the rest of your week..xx
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What a super story, Sally. To find happiness that lasts a lifetime is a blessing. Thanks, Marcia, for hosting Saly today.
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It was a true pleasure to have Sally visit us today, John, especially sharing such a great fairy tale, complete with an HEA we can all applaud! Thanks for stopping by and taking time to let us know you enjoyed it, too! Always a treat to see you here! 😀
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Thanks, Marcia.
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Thanks very much John and delighted you enjoyed… here’s to happiness.. hugsxx
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Yes indeed.
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A most beautiful telling of a fairytale life Sal. Stay blessed. Lovely seeing Sally featured here today Marsh. Hugs ladies ❤ xx
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Thanks very much Debby and glad you enjoyed the tale… we both found a real prince charming and they deserve to be celebrated… love and hugs ♥
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Thank you Sally, we most certainly did. ❤ xx
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So glad you enjoyed Sally’s fairy tale, Debby, and it was a real treat to have her visiting TWS. Thanks so much for stopping by and taking the time to say hello! 😀 ❤
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It’s always a pleasure Marsh. ❤ 🙂
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Loved hearing your love story, Sally. Much better than a fairy tale.
Thank you for hosting our wonderful friend today, Marcia.
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Thanks very much Joan and delighted you enjoyed… lovely to be Marcia’s guest again, she is a fabulous host. ♥
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I’m really glad that you enjoyed Sally’s Real Life Fairy Tale, Joan, HEA and all! It was a pleasure to have Sally here, and it would be great if she can find time now and then to drop by again. (I’ll “encourage” that. 😁)
Thanks for stopping by today and taking a moment to say hello! 😀 ❤
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Who can resist an invitation like that Marcia lol.. look forward to visiting again.. ♥♥
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Yay! And I’ll be looking forward to having you here! 😀 ❤
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That is one of the best examples of a fairy story I’ve ever read – and I’m sure it echoes the experience of a huge number of people. We all had books and magazines where the culmination was the beautiful wedding – and so often the appearance of the thing took precedence over the reality. Sally’s account is a beautifully done, and all the more so because it does actually have that happy-ever-after that does catch the unwary by delicious surprise. Lovely piece, Marcia – many thanks for it and to Sally for this entertaining, shocking and ultimately heart-warming piece. ❤ ❤ ❤
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I knew you’d really enjoy this one, Trish. What a story, huh, and told so well, too. Thanks for stopping by and letting us know it worked for you. 😀 ❤
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Thanks very much Alex and so pleased you enjoyed. The pomp and circumstance of a big family wedding is the dream but I do feel sometimes that the essence of the meaning of love is overshadowed. Our simple ceremony so surpassed my first wedding in every way.. ♥♥
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My younger son and daughter-in-law flew to Belfast just after Xmas, having booked the registry office on line and not told anyone. Their witnesses were one of the hotel receptionists and her boyfriend! Far from being surprised or hurt, we thought it was amusing when we just got a picture of the inside of the plane; I guessed they had got married. It was always on the cards that they would do something different. The original idea of going off to the Seychelles had been scuppered by Covid!
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Another fun story, Janet. Thanks for sharing that with us, and best wishes to your son & DIL. 😀 ❤
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How lovely Janet and I am sure there was a party anyway to celebrate. A very special and intimate commitment to each other..♥
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We had a holiday with all the family in the Lake District over Easter.
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Wonderful Janet ♥
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What a wonderful story! I knew the gist of it from different tellings, but this one is by far the most magical. And unbelievably romantic! What a wonderful post, Sally and Marcia. This is a fairytale for everyone who believes happily ever after is possible. Hugs to you both.
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So glad you enjoyed Sally’s post, Diana. I agree with your assessment completely, and hugs to you, too, my friend! Thanks so much for stopping by to say hello! 😀 ❤
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Thanks very much Diana, delighted you enjoyed this version of my search for true love… and always lovely to be here with Marcia ♥♥
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It was a wonderful story, Sally. Totally romantic and heartwarming.
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Now, THIS is a fairy tale come true! What a love story . . .
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Isn’t it just!! So glad you enjoyed Sally’s post, Liz, and thanks so much for taking a moment to let us know! Here’s to a great week ahead! 😀 ❤
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You’re most welcome, Marcia! I loved the fariy tale version of Sally’s finding her true love.
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Thanks very much Liz and the love and laughter continues hugsxx
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You’re welcome, Sally. 🙂
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